[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.karman.sk\/ina-doba-ine-deti\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.karman.sk\/ina-doba-ine-deti\/","headline":"In\u00e1 doba, in\u00e9 deti","name":"In\u00e1 doba, in\u00e9 deti","description":"Moja star\u00e1 mama vravievala: \u201cMy ke\u010f sme boli deti, ni\u010d z tohto nebolo…!\u201c V\u017edy som zazrela nostalgiu v jej o\u010diach, ke\u010f spom\u00ednala na...","datePublished":"2019-02-24","dateModified":"2023-04-25","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.karman.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.karman.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/087c2e57f451bc02fa8017914855d7c40cf6c7d5dc1637b868e007adc26322d1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/087c2e57f451bc02fa8017914855d7c40cf6c7d5dc1637b868e007adc26322d1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"karman.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.karman.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a297042_w16467_t1550675420.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.karman.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a297042_w16467_t1550675420.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.karman.sk\/ina-doba-ine-deti\/","about":["Z\u00e1bava"],"wordCount":626,"articleBody":"Moja star\u00e1 mama vravievala: \u201cMy ke\u010f sme boli deti, ni\u010d z tohto nebolo…!\u201c V\u017edy som zazrela nostalgiu v jej o\u010diach, ke\u010f spom\u00ednala na obdobie z jej detstva spred sedemdesiatich rokov. Som neskuto\u010dne \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1, \u017ee som si mohla aj ja v\u010faka nej vytvori\u0165 nejednu pekn\u00fa spomienku. Len keby sme ako deti posl\u00fachali rady dospel\u00fdch a nerobili po svojom. Teraz to u\u017e viem. Som aj ja mama. Te\u0161\u00edm sa aj z toho, \u017ee moja stark\u00e1 za\u017eila pol roka so svojou pravnu\u010dkou a ja som sa od nej ve\u013ea veci nau\u010dila. Toto upon\u00e1h\u013ean\u00e9 obdobie a stresuj\u00faci \u017eivot postupne vytvorilo \u00faplne in\u00fa dobu, ak\u00fa za\u017e\u00edvali na\u0161i rodi\u010dia. Rovnako sa to t\u00fdka aj v\u00fdchovy det\u00ed. Teraj\u0161ie matky to nejako preh\u00e1\u0148aj\u00fa. S\u00fa prehnane starostliv\u00e9 a \u010distotn\u00e9. Nechcem ich t\u00fdmto odsudzova\u0165, sna\u017e\u00edm sa na to v\u0161etko pozera\u0165 neutr\u00e1lne a bra\u0165 si z ka\u017edej stany nie\u010do dobr\u00e9. S\u00fa to ako dve strany mince. \u010coraz viac sa hovor\u00ed o \u201ebio matk\u00e1ch\u201c. Nosia deti v \u0161atk\u00e1ch u\u017e od prv\u00e9ho d\u0148a, \u010di dokonca mami u\u010dia nieko\u013eko mesa\u010dn\u00e9 doj\u010dat\u00e1 kaka\u0165 do um\u00fdvadla v rovnak\u00fa hodinu a cika\u0165 do tr\u00e1vy. Tzv. bez plienkov\u00e1 met\u00f3da u m\u0148a nepochodila a som ve\u013emi v\u010fa\u010dn\u00e1 za jednorazov\u00e9 plienky, aj ke\u010f likviduj\u00fa na\u0161e \u017eivotn\u00e9 prostredie. No ale \u010do mu ne\u0161kod\u00ed? Odv\u0161adia\u013e na n\u00e1s val\u00ed marketing na bio potraviny, bio produkty, bio plienky a neviem \u010do e\u0161te. Ka\u017ed\u00e9 star\u0161ie die\u0165a je zrazu hyperakt\u00edvne a nevieme si da\u0165 s nimi rady. Ale pre\u010do? Ke\u010f sme boli mal\u00ed my, cel\u00e9 dni sme tr\u00e1vili vonku s kamar\u00e1tmi na ihrisku alebo sa bicyklovali. Dne\u0161n\u00e1 ml\u00e1de\u017e tr\u00e1vi svoj vo\u013en\u00fd \u010das pri po\u010d\u00edta\u010di. Mus\u00edme \u00eds\u0165 s dobou a prisp\u00f4sobova\u0165 sa aktu\u00e1lnym novink\u00e1m, ale netreba to preh\u00e1\u0148a\u0165. Moja stark\u00e1 dala mojej \u0161tvormesa\u010dnej dc\u00e9re halu\u0161ky s bryndzou a v\u00f4bec som sa na \u0148u nehnevala. Ja jej teraz v pohode uvar\u00edm perkelt z hlivy a nejdem sa ukri\u017eova\u0165 za to, \u017ee by som jej mala da\u0165 huby a\u017e v troch rokoch. Pozer\u00e1m sa na to re\u00e1lne, d\u00e1vam jej \u010do jej chut\u00ed. Samozrejme sledujem, \u010do jej \u0161kod\u00ed, ale ke\u010f jej padne ro\u017eok na zem, tak jej ho zodvihnem a \u010falej m\u00f4\u017ee jes\u0165. Taktie\u017e da\u0165 ro\u010dn\u00e9mu die\u0165a\u0165u nie\u010do sladk\u00e9, na tom nie je ni\u010d zl\u00e9. Treba si spomen\u00fa\u0165 ako sme sa my te\u0161ili z kol\u00e1\u010da, \u010di l\u00edzanky a na\u0161e mami nerie\u0161ili, ko\u013eko cukru denne prijmeme. Mandar\u00ednku a ban\u00e1n sme mali v mikul\u00e1\u0161skom bal\u00ed\u010dku a boli sme \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed aj z b\u00farskych orie\u0161kov.Teraz maj\u00fa deti v\u0161etko a kedy chc\u00fa, preto si ni\u010d nev\u00e1\u017eia a je smutn\u00e9, \u017ee nepoznaj\u00fa ani z\u00e1kladn\u00e9 pravidl\u00e1 spr\u00e1vania. No toto v\u0161etko vych\u00e1dza od rodi\u010dov. T\u00ed s\u00fa v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou v pr\u00e1ci od r\u00e1na do ve\u010dera a ak si chc\u00fa doma odd\u00fdchnu\u0165, zapn\u00fa die\u0165a\u0165u tablet namiesto toho, aby si s nimi pre\u010d\u00edtali knihu. My sa sna\u017e\u00edme na\u0161e die\u0165a vychova\u0165 ako dobr\u00e9ho \u010dloveka. U\u010d\u00edm ju sa podeli\u0165 s cukr\u00edkmi, \u010di po\u010fakova\u0165. Vrav\u00edm jej, \u017ee by mala pusti\u0165 sadn\u00fa\u0165 hocikde na svoje miesto star\u0161ieho \u010dloveka, \u010di tehotn\u00fa \u017eenu. Nie je to v\u0161etko o inej dobe, ale je to o n\u00e1s \u2013 \u013eu\u010foch. A deti sa u\u010dia najviac od svojich rodi\u010dov. Nezab\u00fadajme na to.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.5\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"In\u00e1 doba, in\u00e9 deti","item":"https:\/\/www.karman.sk\/ina-doba-ine-deti\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]